A man of God is needed at home!
In reference to a recent video I published called, "Are you man or a mouse." I am sure I ruffled a few feathers with that one. It is surprisingly heart wrenching how absent the men are in our households today. Where are they and what is their priorities? The problem in many cases is that discipline isn't allowed anymore. It is almost considered child abuse, so the men and whoever is the acting caregiver can't do much about dealing with rebellious children, and the children know it, so what do you do? Being a God-fearing man at home means living a life of deep reverence, awe, and obedience toward God. It is not about ruling your home through fear or intimidation. Instead, it is about modeling a life submitted to God's authority so your children can see what a living faith looks like.Here is how to practically build that foundation in your home: 1. Lead by Visible Example Children learn far more from what they watch you do than from what they hear you say. Let them catch you praying: Do not hide your faith. Let your children see you reading your Bible in the morning or kneeling in prayer during tough times. Practice immediate repentance: When you lose your temper or make a mistake, apologize directly to your children. Say, "I was wrong to speak to you that way. Will you forgive me? I am asking God to help me with my patience." This teaches them that you answer to a higher authority. Honour your wife: Treat your wife with tenderness, respect, and sacrificial love (Ephesians 5:25). A God-fearing man creates a secure environment for his children by loving their mother. 2. Normalize Scripture in Everyday Life Deuteronomy 6:6–7 instructs fathers to talk about God's commandments when sitting at home, walking along the road, lying down, and getting up. Ditch the lectures, use dialogue: Instead of waiting for a crisis to give a heavy sermon, weave God’s truth into everyday moments. Talk about God's creation while playing outside, or discuss biblical integrity while watching a movie. Establish a "First Fruits" routine: Dedicate the first few minutes of breakfast or the moments right before bed to read one proverb or scripture verse together. Pray over them physically: Lay your hands on your children's shoulders or heads before school or at bedtime and pray a specific blessing over them (e.g., Numbers 6:24-26). 3. Discipline with Grace and Consistency Fearing God means treating your children the way God treats His children—with a perfect balance of justice and mercy. Separate anger from discipline: Never discipline your children out of embarrassment or personal frustration. If you are angry, step away to cool down first. Explain the "Why": Connect your house rules to God's principles. Instead of saying, "Because I said so," explain, "We don't lie because God loves the truth, and lying breaks trust in our family." Affirm your love afterward: Once discipline is handled, immediately reassure them of your love, hug them, and pray with them. Show them that correction does not mean rejection.
